Introducing the Dream Team – It’s All About the Love
If you are not in a place of 100% self-acceptance & love within yourself right now…today…than you have no clue yet how unbelievably powerful you are. If you are still out there gettin’ it done in this crazy-ass world and you hate yourself to any extent…well done! I am being completely serious. Pat yourself on the back instead of beating yourself up.
Especially if you are a woman. ESPECIALLY if you are a woman! We have been our own worst enemies for far too long – within ourselves and to one another, ladies. Remember, I suffered from eating disorders and body image problems from ages 10-36. I know self-hate inside and out. My full potential stored away for decades as I stressed all day, every day, about how I looked on the outside. There may have been periods of time when it wasn’t at the forefront of my mind, but the horrible mental messages I sent to myself during the times when it was…they were almost enough to keep me down for the count in this life. Almost.
Many of you (men & women) are still watching that TV & it affects us, folks. It does. And don’t kid yourself…very, very bright people are behind everything on TV. Psychology & marketing – when utilized with darkness as the motive, it is damaging to our cores. There is a concentrated effort to make you feel a very specific way. And ladies…we are still very much defined by how we look on the outside. It keeps us down. It keeps ALL of us down – men & women. I am only beginning to see now with my own example to what extent it hinders our best and I am telling you…it is hugely significant! But only if we allow it to be.
We have been allowing it for a very long time because that was our conditioning. It is time to recondition ourselves in the opposite direction. These are the times to support one another like never before. The world is out of balance and what it needs more than anything is a huge dose of some feminine energy. Not the feminine energy that needs to act like a man for fear of not continuing to rise up the ladder…not that constricted feminine energy. I mean the real stuff. Allow yourself to begin to lose the fear of bringing your WHOLE self to your world. Begin to believe that you can trust it. You won’t get fired. And if you do…it will prove to have been the most perfect thing for you at the time. Ladies…the heart is the thing that we generally get a little better than the guys. This is our role. This is our time. Begin to allow yourself to believe. But know that it begins with believing that you are perfect and beautiful right now…today.
And guys…this doesn’t leave you out of the picture. Not freakin’ at all. It is time for you all to step up and be the men we need you to be. It takes an incredibly amazing man to accept a strong, independent, intelligent, bright, gifted woman. It takes strength and confidence and absolutely self-love. It takes courage, guys, to allow yourselves to open up your hearts. You can do it. And I guarantee there are women (and men) in your life right now who would do back-flips if you began to allow yourself to believe that part of being a man is being sensitive, caring, and communicative. You can do it! However, with your gender, it begins with the ego…for all of us, but this effects men (generally) more so than women.
You must begin to let down that ego, fellas. It is not going to serve you well in this new Game. Believe it or not, it has already begun to work against you so it’s best you hear that now so you aren’t as surprised later when there will be more evidence to prove this claim. And on top of that, guys, in general, be prepared for the fact that in these times women are going to tend to pick up on this game a little bit more quickly because of how we are wired. It isn’t an insult…it is simply fact. I know, though, how much you men hate being out-done by a woman. I used to feed off of it as an athlete – nothing was better than beating a guy on the field or court. However, remember there exists no competition in this new Game. No competition. No judgement. Just expanding.
We all must learn to break away from the very limiting belief of competition. It isn’t about being better or worse anymore. It is about recognizing the full value of people. If you can allow yourself to believe that even if you are some high-powered dude (or woman) in your place of work, that you have something to be gained from this new perspective, you may be shocked to see how much further you can go in this life. But it will likely be a woman who points this out to you. And in general, very few high powered men out there know how to handle that role.
As for that matter, very few bad-ass women know how to accept anything these days from a man…or from a woman. And hear me on this…in my life, I only know bad-ass women. Every single woman in my life is intensely powerful. The problem is that not very many of them are fully aware of it yet. It makes sense. Law of Attraction. For 32 years of my life I was sending out bad-ass woman vibes, to be sure. However, I was also sending out ‘I-don’t-really-accept/believe-how-bad-ass-I-am vibes’. Consequently, my life (especially up until 2010) has been full of women for whom the same is true.
I literally could list dozens of women in my world who, on the surface are some of the most accomplished, amazing, individuals who still don’t believe it to their core. To them I say…you are not going to believe your power when you allow yourself to FINALLY take care of you first. Divine selfishness. It’s like in an airplane when they give you that spiel about the oxygen. You put your mask on first before assisting others. Ladies…it is long overdue for you to truly take care of yourself first. You will be infinitely more powerful to everyone & everything in your world…infinitely, if you stop long enough to allow yourself to ask the questions…’what is it that I really want?’ ‘What would fulfill me like nothing else?’ And it will take longer than a mani/pedi to hear the answers to these questions. However, there is value out the yin-yang in gifting yourself the time and opportunity you require in order to hear them. More value than your mind can even begin to comprehend right now.
Phaedra Woodburning by Kelly Johnston
We are so hell-bent on proving that we can do it all, that we are running around expending our energies in just about the least efficient ways possible. We rarely ask for help and beat ourselves up if we appear weak or out of control in any situation. We have ourselves backed into a nice little corner and we are feeling the stress of that constriction. Of course, we are! We aren’t meant to be doing it all on our own! Yes…we are very, very capable. WE know how capable we are. That isn’t the issue. So let’s stop trying to prove something – to ourselves and to the men. Let’s realign…let’s create the opportunities that make our spirits soar in order to funnel these immense capabilities much, much, MUCH more efficiently. And we’ll take everyone in our lives with us. Everyone goes higher if you take care of you first – everyone!
I am a bit surprised that I was guided to write these posts today from this perspective. It wasn’t planned. But this makes sense. I hesitate only because as you know, I am not a fan of pigeon-holing anyone based on anything. So talking, albeit generally, about women and men above…it makes me pause. Most especially because I found it difficult to write the above without sounding like I support only heterosexism, which couldn’t be further from the truth. Energies are connecting in our world right now like never before. I couldn’t care less about who is attracted to whom. If you feel love, go for it because if it is rooted in love, it can’t be wrong…not possible. These times are about following the heart. THAT is what I support!
There are definite scientific differences in the way male and female brains operate. It truly isn’t an exaggeration or being used as a metaphor when I say that due to wiring issues, women are going to tend to be more open, sooner to the changes of these times than men. This is fact. However, to what I am referring is more so about how all of us interact with one another. Because, in case you didn’t notice, even if you are in a committed relationship, you exist in the world with lots and lots of other people. You exchange energy with anyone with whom you come into contact. And this new Game is all about energy. Our complete energies and how those interact out in the world.
Up until this point, I have been shooting solo on my end of the court. I’ve been learning. I’ve been observing. And I’ve been talking…God knows I’ve been talking. But I didn’t have many teammates. I didn’t know exactly how to get them. This is a Game that you can’t explain well with words. And my outer proof was only beginning to come into the picture. I had a little credibility but even with my VERY like-minded friends here in Sarasota, I was still not able to communicate the extent to which I believed I understood this new Game. I couldn’t express yet how I truly believed that we all…we ALL were going to benefit.
I knew that it wasn’t just my dream about to come true…that I was taking anyone who was ready to go with me but I still hadn’t found the players that were ready. Believe me…this Dream Team is the tip of the freakin’ iceberg – an amazing tip, to be sure, but just the tip. I have hundreds and hundreds of potential players in my life right now. And as soon as there is a little more “proof”, the next tier of them are going to reveal themselves. In fact, some of them will recognize their projects on the website tomorrow. They will know I am referring to them.
They know they are almost ready because they have been feeling it and I’ve been trying to encourage them to explore those feelings, not fear them. Follow them and trust. But I know. I know. You needed to see more. Well, I’ve definitely got more for you! And for the tons of you others out there who are feeling that same nagging itch in your gut. You know you are ready…you just need something. Something that at least resembles this old-paradigm so that you could begin to understand. I know. I know. I’ve been trying. And finally…the pieces all came together. It couldn’t be more beautiful. These next 5 months are going to be the most incredible of my life. I have never trusted and loved like I am doing now. Never. And I have never been so sure about anything in my life.
Finally…it is time for you to meet Julia, Rob Life & Norinda Red, Sage & Grady Reinagle, and Nicole. They all became the first beneficiaries of Alyson Irene Noune, LLC one week ago. They are my Dream Team. Together, we are going to change the world. No doubt about it!
To be continued…within the next couple of hours. 🙂
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